So, in my opinion, the forum is getting out of hand.
I'm really tired of people accusing others of being rude.
What is the definition of mean?
- unwilling to give or share things, especially money; not generous.
- unkind, spiteful, or unfair.
"it was very mean of me"
- (especially of a place) poor in quality and appearance; shabby.
"her home was mean and small" (Not very significant...)
What I mean is look at what you're saying. Is this person really being mean?
Second, are you being mean to them? Just because they were mean to you, doesn't mean that you should be rude to them and say, for example,
"Wow you're so rude, I can't believe you said. You're such a disgrace"
It doesn't make anyone feel better
Instead, say "Could you please stop saying that? It's disrespectful to the community."
It makes a huge difference, what you respond.
Many people are influenced into their personality, and bad habits.
That doesn't mean you should lash out at them.