Now did you catch my reference? Lol
@mindcool24 hey. how ya doing? Any updates? Just wanted to check in once.
Almost everything is going ok, I got closure from the girl, and apparently her friend has a crush on me so we are together now:) I see this relationship working out better, she helped me get out of the pit I was stuck in, and both of us agree that we make each other happy:)
thats awesome. I’m so so happy for you dude. Glad she (and silv) helped you get out
Yah, thanks for helping me too:) you are amazing:)
We could probably use this post a bit more
I’m just kinda put out today, and now that I think about it, it was probably the girl not responding to something I said at lunch… I mean it shouldn’t hit me this hard but it’s still kinda here
its takes time to get over that stuff. You have your gf now, but that doesn’t mean everything you felt just “poofs” away. It takes a lot of time, and sometimes you never really fully get over it. Closure is good but not necessarily 100% effective. Recovery only works if you let it. Try to let go a bit more. Focus on your gf and the other good people in your life.
I’ll try, thanks for the advice:)
Argh I know something’s wrong but I don’t know what it is and she isn’t responding… I hope this is just me overthinking…
who? Your gf or the other girl?
Try using a mutual friend or a handwritten note to talk to them?
Everything is ok, I was just overthinking sorry for false alarm a bit. My mind is overthinking way to much rn
Do you want me to help with anything? I know you’re talking to Silv already and I don’t wanna like intrude…
Hey no, you are fine:) have both of you helps a lot:) I’m doing a lot better now, just got off of work (first time wohoo)
Thanks ig, I doubt I’ve helped that much tho.
Glad you’re bette dude!! I heard something good happened today to cheer you up?
You have helped a lot, don’t seem yourself short man, you are amazing
Well, my gf came up to me and gave me a big hug and a kiss on the cheek… Left me speechless for a while lol
debatable but thanks. Glad I helped.
Awwww that’s so sweet lol, I’m glad it cheered you up
Dude are you really arguing with the person you helped push away depression from? Dude, you are amazing, you have helped me so much, you can’t deny it dude
ok ok I digress. Thanks?
You are welcome, I owe quite a lot to you, you are such a good friend:)
I appreciate that. You are too
Today was starting out good, I helped someone move out, then my parents decide that we are going somewhere, out of the blue, and where like “Yah you can stay home but you can’t do anything” and they just left me with that, either I have to go or I get to sit at home doing nothing at all… My brother had more say in what’s happening, and it’s just kind of annoying and frustrating that they think that they can push me around, but I can’t fight back at all bc I’ll get lectured for an hour and still have to go… sorry that was a rant…
ugh that’s so annoying. I get the feeling.
Maybe you could do your homework or something at home? Play a game? They wouldn’t know y’know. Normally I’d never suggest that ever, but if it’s that bad an event an you really don’t wanna go then…
They would know… They are helicopter parents and they are overly restrictive so they know almost everything I do… Ugh I really don’t like this at all… I’m probably going to end up going anyways… Im just not feeling 100% today, I’m kinda down for no reason today…
ugh thats terrible I’m so sorry
When you get back, tag me and I’ll cheer you up. I have to go now, I’m sorry, but I promise we’ll talk when we’re both back.
Ok sounds good:) thanks, I’ll need it
Still down, it was a 2 hour wait then 1 hour doing it, then got home and sat through a lecture of “you need to be nice to your brother” after talking to him in an odd tone of voice
ugh that socks. I get it tho. Same happens to me all the time, and i always get in trouble for everything he does. It’s really annoying but i guess it can’t be helped…
Don’t be down. You’re amazing. You’re loved. You’re valued. You’re cared for. You’re appreciated. You’re worth it.
You have so many amazing qualities, and anyone that doesnt see or appreciate that is just an ìdiot and doesn’t deserve you.
Sometimes people can be blind, like maybe your parents, but that doesn’t mean what’s they don’t see isnt there.
Thanks:) that put a smile on my face:) I wish it was easier for me to ask for help irl… Honestly you are one of the only people that knows what’s actually going on with me, I appreciate everything
I know. If I’m being honest, same here. Not that I’m good at asking online haha
Don’t mention it dude. I’m glad I could help. But I reallly doubt I’ve done that much, or been anywhere remotely near that helpful.
Dude, it’s been so helpful, you are almost the only source of help I have
What happened to your prof help? And you have so many other people dude. Silv, Sage, gwe, ref, I can go on for a long time.
You give me too much credit.
I still haven’t said much to them…
Dude. You sell yourself short, you can’t dictate how much you have helped me and how amazing you are
wdym? The prof help person?
Or you overestimate me? But you know you have them all too, and a whole forum full of other people that care. It’s not just me. And I’m not takin the cred for how much they help too.
Fear… When will you learn lol. You need to take the credit I give you, you deserve it. You have helped so much
No I donttt. I pretty much just ruìn everything I touch.
and I still doubt it but fine. Glad I could, I guess.
I’m still here fear, you haven’t ruined me
I will win fear, I promise you this:)
oh no you won’t.
You cannot change my opinion, so I have already won:)
thats subjective, kid.
But whatever helps you sleep at night.
You need to sleep
No I don’t.
Yes you do
Last night I kinda had an emotional breakdown, I looked at my life and saw all the mistakes and all of my failures, saw everything that happened to me that made me the broken mess that I am, and all I wanted was for no-one to ever go through that other than me because it was horrible… I also ranted to myself about how I can’t do anything without being paranoid of my parents and how I hope I won’t be that parent… It hurt my soul a lot last night…
im so sorry. I can relate. I know what it’s like too see that, and I don’t want anyone to go through anything like that either. That includes you. No one, absolutely no one, not even you, deserves to go through that.
You know what it feels like to have parents like that, and you h8 it. That’s enough for you to be compassionate and empathetic enough to sympathize with your kids. You won’t turn into your parents, I promise.
I hope not… I feel like a burden… I’m sorry if I am… I feel so bad for no reason, I feel useless and just a burden on people… I don’t know… Im sorry I’m weird like this and can’t explain things,ugh. I feel like I don’t deserve anything other than to be yelled at or beat up…
listen here and you better listen well because I won’t repeat this. I’ll knock sense into you ONCE and that better be the last time.
YOU ARE NOT A BURDEN. YOU ARE NOT WEIRD. YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO BE BEAT UP OR YELLED AT.
YOU ARE KIND, CARING, STRONG, WONDERFUL, SUPPORTIVE, A GREAT FRIEND, WORTH IT, AMAZING, SMART, AND I COULD GO ON FOR DAYS. YOU BETTER START BELIEVING THAT, YOUNG MAN.
Seriously dude, you’re a lot of things but none that bad. You don’t deserve the bad stuff you get or think you deserve. I know people that are much much worse and get less than that. You’re one of the good people, and you’re my friend and someone I genuinely care about. You deserve that and so much more. You may not get it irl, but you get it here and always will.
Anyone that says otherwise can go to Hades’ realm on a one way ticket for eternity .
Just about made me cry again… Thanks… I’ll try to believe this, it’ll be a bit tho. I’ll probably end up reading it every day in the morning until I get it… It’s so hard for me to accept this but I’ll try
i tried. Glad you’re doing the same.
I know how hard it is, take your time. As long as you get there eventually, that’s what matters.
And if you ever need to be yelled at again (sometimes a harsh sIap in the face is the best wake up call), or just need a friend or advice or whatever, I’m here.
Thank you so much for being here for me… It helps a lot. You are amazing fear…
dont mention it.
Thanks but no. You are (let’s continue in rct before I see up all my edits lol)
Not much has changed, I’m just overthinking again and down today