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#924

Nice! You should probably just talk to her and try to become friends first, which will open up to more -deep- relationships.
(sorry about the ignoring part)


#925

im in 6th grade. she is in 7th.


#926

Wow… I’m really sorry… IDK what to do bc girls are still mostly a mystery to me (I’m a boy)
I can see the age gap being restrictive in this situation
One works in my post got attacked…


#927

it is. trust me it SO is.


#928

i need to remember that l.g.b.t. is censored ffffffff


#929

why did it take u so long to type that -_-


#930

?? i just wrote a huge post about struggling with my sexu.ality but it got pending


#931

oops sry


#932

its alright lol


#933

So I have something to share.

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I’ve just entered 9th Grade and we have new textbooks to use. There’s this one that talks about gender stuff and it (obviously) interested me, so I read a bit, and this chapter dealt with the issues of gender identity and sexuality so well, but at the same time, so discreetly that a cishet homo/transphobic wouldn’t be able to tell that the book was addressing these issues. Because of this, I freaked out so much internally, and it gave me the realization that not everyone in a mostly homo/transphobic country is like that, and allies/members do exist in every corner of the world.

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And secondly, I want to ask a question to everyone here. When you talk about sexual attraction, is it in terms of immediate attraction, or attraction that develops gradually?

  • Immediate attraction
  • Gradual attraction
  • Both
  • None

0 voters

I’ve been puzzled over this question for some time now, and I’m starting to think that I may be both cupioromantic and cupiosexual.


#934

At least your vocal chords didn’t botch saying β€œhi” to someone
Twice
unless you did but I seriously doubt that
I mean how easy is it to say hi
granted I may or may not like that kid


#935

I mean like, I fall for every girl I meet, but to really get close enough to date someone, it takes time


#936

im confused. i am a girl, k? and i have yet gotten cru shes on like 2 girls, but i never feel towards any girl i see. its more like i need to know them. idk.
but for guys i can see 1 guy at , lets say, the airport, and think β€œoh, he’s cute” but never for girls. what do u think my se xuality could be? vote out of these and also say something about it otherwise, pls.

  • bisexual
  • homormantic heteros exual
  • other (write below.)

0 voters


#937

same u just described me


#938

ikr its sooooo ugh


#939

u might just be bi w a preference towards guys, but again, there’s no rush to put a label on it


#940

Yup, agreed.

Why do you wanna put a label on it ASAP anyway, tho, @Houseelf87?


#941

demisexual bi or grey ace bi


#942

i think the heterose.xual, but a demiho.mo romant.ic (i know a lot about demi cuz i am)


#943

I always have more than one crush and I don’t know why. So I like the girl who’s gay that I’ve been friends with for a while and I’ve started texting again (we’re going to see a movie in a few weeks :blush:) but after spending so much time with the theater kids I’ve started developing a pretty big crush on one of them (the one I accidentally touched lips with) and some minor ones on some of the other theater girls. So I’m a little conflicted because I feel like I’m being unfaithful to the first girl even though we’re not actually dating. I’ve just been thinking a lot about the theater girls lately so I just feel confused and it feels weird to have so many crushes.

  • You can have more than one major crush at a time.
  • You should not have more than one major crush at a time.

0 voters

For anyone who’s bi…

  • I always have more crushes on boys than girls
  • I always have more crushes on girls than boys
  • I go through phases where I like boys more than girls or the opposite
  • I like boys / girls equally all the time
  • It changes every day

0 voters

Just curious… sometimes I feel β€œnot bi enough” to not be straight, and other times I feel β€œtoo bi” to not be gay XD